Advice
A letter to the version of me from three years ago
Some advice I wish someone had written down and slipped under the door.
May 4, 2026 · 8 min · by Arbild Hels
You will spend most of your twenties trying to be impressive to people who are not paying attention. Stop.
Write the email. Send the message. Almost nothing is as urgent as your nervous system tells you it is.
The people who are right for your life will not require a performance.
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